In
chronicling the Gambill family history, it would be both remiss
and amiss if some portion of it was not dedicated to this woman
who took care of the Gambill family all of her life -twelve
she gave birth to, and one whom she married.
Mandy Gambill was a strong woman and she came from strong,
pioneer stock:
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Curtis and Mandy Gambill with Ruby Ca 1914
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The first
Brooks that we know of is a female Irish (probably Scotch-Irish)
immigrant named Rebecca Brooks, Mom's ggggrandmother. .
She never married. We do not know this, but she must have
been an indentured servant, or transported, if she immigrated
as a single woman. In the early eighteen hundreds she bore
two sons who were probably half brothers, Young Brooks and
Stokes Brooks- the line Mom came from.. For a female to
survive in the incredibly harsh environment of frontier
colonial America without a husband/male protector is a remarkable
story. Rebecca not only survived, she lived to be 99 years
old..
A more recent example of a pioneer woman
is Mandy's mother, Sally Bauguess Brooks. She was a multi-talented
mountain woman, married to a Baptist preacher, who grew
her own flax and sheep and spun and wove her own fabrics
and bed coverlets.. She was a midwife and was known for
her generous help to others. She bore twelve children, five
of which predeceased her.
Mom had another prominent |
female among her ancestors,
Clarissa Reynolds, Mom's gggrandmother and the wife of Stokes
Brooks. She had Reynolds ancestors who have been traced back
to 1505 in England. And on Clarissa's maternal side, the Clevelands,
her uncle was Benjamin Cleveland, a man who has a place in the
history books for his role as one of the commanding officers
at the pivotal battle of King's Mountain in the Revolutionary
War.
And there were some male antecedents who led memorable, long
lives.
According
to family lore, Mom's grandfather, Dickie Bauguess, during the
Civil War, while in his forties and already a grandfather (his
first child, Sally, was married and a mother by then), walked
out of the mountains to Manassas, Va., joined the Union Army,
and was a prisoner of war. All this time, the family had no
knowledge of his whereabouts, but after three years when the
war ended he walked back to his home in the mountains. He lived
to be almost 100.
The Bauguess family, according to information posted
on the genealogy records of the Mormon Church, traces its beginnings
back to Robert Boggess, 1627, in St. Stephen's, Northhumberland,
Va. Robert must have been one of the earliest settlers in the
wilderness of the American Colonies...
Stokes Brooks, son of Rebecca, was always associated
with the Baptist church and was a Baptist preacher, a role that
my grandfather William Brooks (Stokes's grandson) filled two
generations later. He was a successful land owner/farmer and
married well.
About her Dad, William Brooks, I know very little.
He was a Baptist preacher and a very strict one, too,. I know
that his sons attended schools, but I can find no evidence the
daughters were allowed to, although someone must have taught
them because none were illiterate..In searching for his antecedents,
I finally found his father, a widower, who was living in William's
household on Piney Creek in 1900. His name was L.C. Brooks (I
later found out that his first name was Larkin, a pretty family
name shared by my Uncle Larkin two generations later)..My ggrandfather,
Larkin, or L. C., served as a Sergeant with the Union Army in
C0. H. 10th TN Cav. in the Civil War. Both of Mom's grandfathers
, L. C. Brooks and Dickie Bauguess, fought as Unionists !
I said earlier that my Mom was a strong woman, and she needed
to be to meet the challenges of her life.. Without exaggeration,
I have never known of anyone-man or woman, slave or free-who
worked as hard as my mother, Mandy Gambill. When needed, she
did every imaginable chore on the family farm which ranged from
repairing a window or screen door, hoeing the fields, picking
tomatoes, milking cows-- then coming in from the fields, chopping
wood to build a fire, cook the meal, clean up and if he wanted
barbering, shave her husband,. Of course, in between she washed
clothes, cooked, cleaned house, sewed, and bore, and breast
fed twelve babies, eleven of which survived her. The only work
aspect of farm life that she was exempt from was that which
involved machinery. That was saved for the male members.
I am sure her young life was filled with responsibilities,
too, because everyone had to work hard on the small mountain
holdings. And even while young she was helping to raise a child.
Her sister, Caroline, died and left a young orphan boy, Joe
Thomas, and Mom helped rear him. From the Census records of
1900 and 1910, there is no evidence that she had any formal
schooling, but she was literate, had good penmanship, and could
do basic math very well which is a tribute to her native intelligence.
Of which
she had plenty. She could take a newspaper, hold it up to you,
cut out a dress pattern, and sew a simple dress with no problem.
She could prepare a meal for 12 to 20 people from almost nothing.
I have often said " Why shouldn't I believe in miracles?
I have seen my mother perform the miracle of the loaves and
fishes on a daily basis" Although she was not always a
first-rate cook-- not having a great deal to work with-- her
baking powder biscuits were the best.. Of course, she had plenty
of practice-she made big pans of them everyday, sometimes every
meal.. No one could make roast duck like Mom. She grew it, slaughtered
it, cleaned it and baked it ever so slowly in the oven of an
old wood stove. If she had enjoyed the resources that my generation
has, she could have been a consummate cook. As it was she 'did
the most with the least' of anyone I know.
She was blessed with good health and great stamina,
both of which she needed. Stoical, by nature, she soldiered
on even when ailing. Except for childbirth, I remember only
once, maybe twice when Mom took to her bed. One of those occasions
was for kidney stones which she painfully passed at home. She
had a lump in her breast in 1935, but refused surgery and removed
it herself with hot compresses and a heated bottle( a true story!)
In consequence she did not suffer malingering easily. So if
you had a complaint, it had better be real. You soon learned
that the cure available could be more painful than the disease,--."
Here, take these epsom salts!"
Having a work- filled life did not mean Mom had
no fun. She enjoyed visiting, or being visited, and sharing
a meal. She was a prankster by nature and loved to play a practical
joke. One I remember all too well because for me it was traumatic.
The earliest Christmas I can remember we were all waiting to
see if Santa would put goodies( a single orange, candy, and
nuts) in our stockings. My older brother Dean had been creeping
down the stairs and peeking. He was telling us younger kids
there was no Santa Claus, Mom was doing it.. To reward his bad
behavior, Mom put in his stocking an old dried up meat skin..
Well, when morning arrived, Dean ran downstairs to get the stockings.
Guess who got the one with the meat skin (either accidentally,
or by design). It wasn't Dean!: You cannot imagine the disappointment
this four year old felt that dark Christmas morning in that
old farmhouse with no orange or candy from Santy Claus!. I knew
then Dean was right about Santa, there wasn't any.. That particular
joke did not turn out as Mom intended.
For overriding all else, Mom was kind. She helped
raise her orphan nephew, she fed whoever came to our house,
she offered the homeless a roof and a bed, she revered and cared
for her mother-in-law and father-in-law in their old age. She
shared whatever she had. Tramps and beggars (and there were
plenty of them in the Great Depression) were never turned away
without something, even if it was just a slab of cold cornbread
There are many folk, some alive today, who could bear testimony
to the good deeds of Mandy Gambill.
One thing
Mom was not good at was housekeeping. How could she be when
there was so many other chores of a higher priority and so little
to do with? And always so many people to make a mess! But, having
said this, I expect this was an area in which she had little
talent, or interest. And while I am talking about her shortcomings,
in my opinion she catered to her husband and sons to a degree
that was subservient. Also, she did not show her emotions, or
affection, except to young babies. But these failings (my call)
were part of the mountain culture in which she was born and
raised. You see as an ethnic group, the Scotch-Irish were not
noted for neatness, or open show of familial affection, and
they were a patriarchal society so males were treated differently/better..As
evidence, only the boys in Mom's family attended school.
As young
children we were sent to Sunday School to the church nearest
us, but Mom did not have proper Sunday clothes or the
free time to attend church, with any regularity, until her late
years when we were all grown..I do know that she and Dad in
the late fifties attended Conowingo Baptist church Even
though she came from a Baptist background, as far as I know
Mom did not have a formal church affiliation or make a formal
profession of faith. . But she did "the walk" of a
Christian. With God's help and grace she lived a life of service
to others.
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I
am writing this tribute so that future generations will
know something of the character and life of one who came
before them. Of one who lived most of her life in a time
and a place without indoor plumbing and electricity. Who
worked to maintain a bare subsistence under very austere
conditions, yet always shared and helped others, not consciously,
but just because that is what you do.
She
was a pioneer from pioneer stock. As the world judges,
she would not be noticed, having no wealth or social standing.
There were not many like her back then and they don't
make them like that today. The mold has been thrown away.
Her likes will not soon come this way again
Finally, these things should have been said
to her in her lifetime. I regret that I only touched on
it..I hope that angels have an ISP ( Internet Service
Provider) so now she knows!
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Written in loving
memory
August 31, 2003 by
her daughter, Marie (Bobbie) Gambill Smith